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Nov. newsletter: The Dash (JohnBoy)

My November newsletter is In honor of my beloved brother, John, who passed away this month.  Life is a gift, be present in the moment and nurture yourself and your relationships.   My passion is to help you by providing the coaching, training to inspire and empower you to:  Take Care of You!   Doing wellness and life together…Head, Heart and Body.  Transformations take place from the inside out.

TCOY

Coach Lucy

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The Crisis of Urgency

ImageRather than worrying about the past or the future, focus on living in appreciation for today, this very moment in your life.  Although this sounds easy to do, we’ve become a society of urgency which doesn’t necessarily focus on the important.  Our priorities, beliefs and values can get shuffled during urgency battles. 

How often do you feel you are living life in a maze of what to do, where to go, who to connect with only to be left feeling worn out and disappointed.  The illusion of “if I just had a little more time, money, connections…(whatever), things would be better. 

Some simple but profound words of encouragement:  Life is a gift (the present is the present).  Wisdom is knowing you are enough and faith not fear is what elevates you to a life of joy even during the challenges and trials of life.

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Below is an excerpt from “Tyranny of the Urgent” by Charles E. Hummel.

Have you ever wished for a thirty-hour day? Surely this extra time would relieve the tremendous pressure under which we live. Our lives leave a trail of unfinished tasks. Unanswered letters, unvisited friends, unwritten articles, and unread books haunt quiet moments when we stop to evaluate. We desperately need relief.

But would a thirty-hour day really solve the problem? Wouldn’t we soon be just as frustrated as we are now with our twenty-four allotment?

A mother’s work is never finished, and neither is that of any student, teacher, minister, or anyone else we know. Nor will the passage of time help us catch up. Children grow in number and age to require more of our time. Greater experience in profession and church brings more exacting assignments. So we find ourselves working more and enjoying it less.

JUMBLED PRIORITIES. . . ?

When we stop to evaluate, we realize that our dilemma goes deeper than shortage of time; it is basically the problem of priorities. Hard work does not hurt us. We all know what it is to go full speed for long hours, totally involved in an important task. The resulting weariness is matched by a sense of achievement and joy. Not hard work, but doubt and misgiving produce anxiety as we review a – – – month or year and become oppressed by the pile of unfinished tasks. We sense uneasily that we may have failed to do the important. The winds of other people’s demands have driven us onto a reef of frustration. We confess, quite apart from our sins, “We have left undone those things which we ought to have done, and we have done those things which we ought not to have done.”

Several years ago an experienced cottonmill manager said to me, “Your greatest danger is letting the urgent things crowd out the important.” He didn’t realize how hard his maxim hit. It often returns to haunt and rebuke me by raising the critical  problem of priorities.

We live in constant tension between the urgent and the important. The problem is that the important task rarely must be done today or even this week. Extra hours of prayer and Bible study, a visit with that non-Christian friend, careful study of an important book: these projects can wait. But the urgent tasks call for instant action—endless demands pressure every hour and day.

A man’s home is no longer his castle; it is no longer a place away from urgent tasks because the telephone breaches the walls with imperious demands. The momentary appeal of these tasks seems irresistible and important, and they devour our energy. But in the light of time’s perspective their deceptive prominence fades; with a sense of loss we recall the important task pushed aside. We realize we’ve become slaves to the tyranny of the urgent.
CAN YOU ESCAPE. . . ? if you would like the complete article, contact me.

 

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